Forgiveness Is.... A Decision, A Choice, A Cleansing (12.1.13)

WHAT IS FORGIVENESS:

Forgiveness is a decision I make to obey GOD and to walk as a life-style, in a higher realm, by not allowing someone else's actions or attitudes dictate my actions or attitudes.

First of all, forgiveness is a decision. 

Even though some decisions can be very difficult, GOD has given us the ability to make them. Even if our emotions are screaming, "No! No!"; we are still capable of making a choice to forgive. It is not really accurate to say, "I can't forgive."  That's not true. 

What you are actually saying is, "I won't forgive."

It is a choice. A difficult one, you bet!
One you don't feel like making - sure!
But possible? Yes! 

It is possible to forgive, even though there is nothing within us that feels like forgiving. 

It is an act of our will - not our emotions!

Forgiveness is a decision I make. 

Who makes it?  I do.
Even GOD Himself cannot make that decision for you.
Only you can decide to forgive with your heart. 

If you don't forgive, you will have to live with the crippling consequences of your unforgiveness.

Forgiveness is a decision I make to obey GOD. 

Forgiveness is not a suggestion - it's a commandment. 

GOD doesn't say, "It would really be a good idea if you could find it in your heart to do some forgiving." 

No! 

He says, "You must forgive!" 

Forgiveness is a choice of obedience to GOD
and it's something that can take place in the privacy of your own heart.

Even if you are angry or bitter towards someone who has already died, forgiveness is still possible for you. Because forgiveness is an issue of the heart. And as you forgive, you will experience GOD's peace within your spirit.

Forgiveness is cleansing your heart - before you go to anyone else for advise or prayer. First, make it right before GOD. That's where forgiveness must begin. Then, as the Lord specifically directs you, you can forgive and seek reconciliation with the other person.