Dealing with Difficult People (6.2.14)

When dealing with difficult people, our response should be the examples provided by Jesus, for He surely dealt with many difficult people during His time here on earth. 

His interactions with these people were never with an attitude of superiority or dominance, but rather one of subservience. In the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus was quite specific: But I tell you who hear me: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. If someone strikes you on one cheek, turn to him the other also. If someone takes your cloak, do not stop him from taking your tunic. Give to everyone who asks you, and if anyone takes what belongs to you, do not demand it back. Do to others as you would have them do to you - Luke 6:27-31

We also see a related statement by Jesus in Matthew 19:30 - But many who are first will be last, and many who are last will be first. This is a very difficult assignment, and it is certainly not something we can do on our own or in our own power. 

Yet it is not impossible if we seek the Lord's help, because power from the Holy Spirit will enable us to do things we could never do on our own. 

In so doing, however, it is important to recall the admonition given by the apostle Paul in Romans 12:3 - For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the measure of faith GOD has given you.  

When we succeed in dealing with difficult people with a Christ-like attitude, it is never a cause for pride or self-aggrandizement.  However, it is an occasion to praise the GOD who makes all things possible, through Christ, who strengthens and empowers us (see Philippians 4:13).

- Marilyn